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Jimmy Nguyen
October 29th, 2009, 01:22 AM
so yea after a year later i found out that the two rings that my dad gave me.
got owned( as in melted in a kiln and reused for some other shit)


so last year my mom took my rings that my dad gave me so she can lend it to the jewlery shop for money. cuz she needed to pay her for her credit crap >.>
so yea time and time again i keep asking her and telling her to get my rings back but she had to pay back the money she borrowed with interest.
but she never did for lik a year.....

and today i asked her again. so she called the jewerly shop and asked the jewelery shop lade. *who is also supposedly her frend...*
and they said that they recycled the rings, cuz my mom dint pay the debt in lik a year ._.

after hearing their conversation on the phone my whole body nearly collapsed.
and when i got into the car i cried alittle. not lik cried but there was some tears here and there. my mom has been very depressed for the pass month and had been very emotional. so i dint want to be angry at her so i put my anger aside and hold it in.

i never even wanted my mom to take my rings. im still mad at the fact that she took it before telling me....
she said she will buy me another one but i dint want too. cuz it wouldn't feel the same you kno?

ive been hiding this from him for like a whole year now.
and now i find out that my rings have been recycled...
i guess ill just tell him i lost it.. cant risk my parents getting in a huge arguement right?

not lik im going to die.

my dad has been out of town working for a month too. and today he called me and asked how i was doing. it took almost all my strength to reply back to him and my whole body was filled with guilt. during and after the conversation i had some tears too .

i kno some ppl will say its just some rings get over it, but to me its lik a prized possession. lik my dad passed it down to me and some sht.

well i just gotta get over it. im 17 and im grown.
grown men dont cry lol

RedLight
October 30th, 2009, 12:34 AM
I understand this completely. You lost something the was really precious to you and it was taken away. Everyone cries no matter what age. If you dont cry, well you one heartless son of a bitch lol.

Yoshi13
October 30th, 2009, 12:46 AM
http://i1002.photobucket.com/albums/af143/Asphalt_Knight/smeagol.jpg

Aljay
October 30th, 2009, 01:33 AM
Hey, man - regardless of how old you are, no one should keep THAT much emotion in them for that long of a time. This is what friends and family are there for - to support and love you especially in times of need.

I'm relieved to hear that you've already told your dad about it. Now you can move on.

Live life, be happy.

dantemirror
October 30th, 2009, 01:35 AM
That some bad luck...

Not really know how your mom could do that D:

At least be happy your father is still with you (at the begining i though u treasured them cuz he passed away ._.)

If it is of any help, maybe some day you can gift your father a couple of rings like the ones he gave you (when you graduate from college and stuff). Make it a goal.

And sorry to hear it, seems like you are doing the sensible thing trying to avoid them to fight over (still, i guess you mom should learn to be responsible of her credit...)
I use debit cards because i know how much of a bitches credit cards are...

Jimmy Nguyen
October 30th, 2009, 10:00 PM
lol lord of the rings xD
yea ill try to keep that goal in mind.
since im trying hard and doing good in school.
hopes it works out

BloodyK3n
October 30th, 2009, 10:17 PM
Yea good luck with the goal bruh.

Jimmy Nguyen
October 30th, 2009, 10:46 PM
thanks bud
nd turning 17 tmr XD.
well thats something good to look forward too right?

RedLight
October 31st, 2009, 12:35 AM
Well look forward to 18 thats when your legal XD.

btw im older than you? haha wow you look way older than me when I saw your pic.

Jimmy Nguyen
October 31st, 2009, 01:22 AM
o really?
maybe if i had my mustache...lol

how old are u red?
if u dont mind me asking

Aljay
October 31st, 2009, 01:23 AM
thanks bud
nd turning 17 tmr XD.
well thats something good to look forward too right?

Dude, your birthday is Halloween? Sweet!

Happy early 17th!

Jimmy Nguyen
October 31st, 2009, 01:41 AM
haha yea going trick or treating tmr hopefully.
woot woot

RedLight
October 31st, 2009, 02:30 AM
o really?
maybe if i had my mustache...lol

how old are u red?
if u dont mind me asking


just turned 18 last Saturday.

Jimmy Nguyen
October 31st, 2009, 03:34 AM
wow so ur pretty much about 1 year older then me XD